Safely use your favourite sex toy
Many South Africans own a sex toy of some kind and the number is growing as society becomes more sex-positive. However, with so many different types of sexual toy on the market these days, it can be confusing to know exactly how to use Sex Toys.
At moodtime.co.za we have a vast selection of adult toys that we make available to the South African adult market so we decided to put together this guide to the most common sex toy categories and how to use them. Whether you have a penis or a vulva, you will find everything here from vibrators to Anal Beads and Cock Rings, so you will be using your sex toys like a pro in no time.
Oh well, let’s skip the foreplay and dive straight into it!
How to use a dildo
We are you have browsed our dildo section and notices that dildos come in all shapes and sizes, so it is important to find the right kind of Dildo for you. If you are using a dildo to penetrate your vagina, make sure it is made from a body safe material. If you are using a Dildo anally, make sure it is body-safe and also has a flared base so it can’t accidentally slip inside your bottom during play, which would be a bummer if it did!
Safety first! So the number one rule we would recommend using high quality Water Based Lube on both the dildo and your vagina or anus to make things easier. Before starting penetration make sure you are relaxed and start slow, and slowly introduce the dildo into your body. Don't go pounding away too quickly - get your body used to the size of the Dildo, especially if it's big.
Once you feel that your body is relaxed and stretched out enough to accommodate the dildo, start to increase the speed and get a little rougher if that's how you like it. Also consider trying different positions - instead of using your hands, try balancing the Dildo on the floor while you ride it or squat down onto it.
How to Use a Bullet Vibrator
Bullet vibrators are fun and are also great for foreplay. Bullet Vibrators are designed primarily for clitoral stimulation, meaning that you should focus on the external clitoris instead of putting them inside you. Hold these external clitoral toys against your clit and play around with the vibration settings until you find a vibration pattern and intensity that you like.
If your clitoris is very sensitive, try using a Bullet Vibe against your clitoral hood or with other parts of your vulva. They are also great for teasing other erogenous zones like the nipples and inner thighs and anus. Bullet Vibrators are one of the best ways to bring sex toys into your relationship as they are one of the easiest toys to bring into the bedroom! They are small and un-intimidating, so why not give it a try? Clitoral or anal stimulation coupled with penetrative sex can be orgasmic.
How to Use a Rabbit Vibrator
Okay, so rabbit vibrators are probably the most well know sex toy term and most people know what they are. These sex toys designed to give you external clitoral stimulation and internal G-spot stimulation at the same time. These 2 pleasure zones on your body can combine to produce an amazing blended orgasm, where you experience 2 different types of female orgasm at the same time.
First, use the bunny ears to stimulate the clitoris and get those sexual juices flowing. When you feel turned on and ready, lube up the main shaft of the adult toy with some Water-based Lube and slowly insert it inside your vagina. Make sure that the tip of the shaft is angled toward your stomach, as this is the side of your body where the G-spot sits.
Most Rabbit Vibrators have multiple settings to control the vibration intensity and frequency patterns of the bunny ears, as well as vibrations in the G-spot tip. Many of these toys will also have additional controls for rotations and swirls within the main shaft or thrusts the shaft depending on the style you choose. Start slow and slowly work your way up to more intense vibrations.
How to Use a Wand Vibrator
Wand vibrators sometimes also referred to Magic AV Wand are known for their deep, rumbly powerful vibrations. Wand Vibrators are designed for external clitoral stimulation, some guys also use them as penis vibrators as well, they also come with many optional head attachments from male masturbation sleeves to dildos and penetrators so there are so many possibilities with these sex toys.
If you're using them on your clitoris, be sure to press them firmly against your body to allow those deep vibrations to penetrate your deeper clitoral complex. You might even try using wand vibrators with a partner! When using these Sex Toys, they can start to make you feel numb after a while because of how strong they are so it is helpful to move them around different parts of your body to make sure that you keep feeling the vibrations and enjoying the fun. These are not just for your pussy they can be used by men too and used all over the body.
How to Use a Butt Plug
A butt plug or anal plug can be used for many reasons, some people like them for sexual pleasure, some people use them for prostate stimulation, and some people use them to stretch their anus before anal sex. Butt Plugs are made from body safe materials and have a flared base to stop them from getting trapped inside your ass.
A great tip to comfortable use a Butt Plug is to first, slowly insert 1 or 2 lubed-up fingers into your butthole to loosen it up. You must not just shove these sex toys straight up there without any warning, the anus needs time to stretch out and adjust. Once you have managed to get 1 or 2 lubed-up fingers comfortably inside your anus, it is time to move on to the Butt Plug. If you are new to anal toys, we would suggest a small silicone butt plug to start with. Don't go using massive sex toys if you can't handle them!
Another tip would be to warm your butt plug up first before popping it in, you don’t want to surprise your hold with a cold toy! Cover the Butt Plug in high-quality water-based lube and slowly begin to slide it inside you. It will feel uncomfortable at first, but once you get the plug all the way inside, your anus will close over the skinny neck of the butt plug and it will begin to feel more natural.
How to Use a Prostate Massager
Designed for people assigned male at birth, a prostate massagers are toys that massage the male prostate which is also known as the P-spot or Male G spot. The prostate is around 2-3 inches inside a man's anus, located on the anterior side of the body (toward the stomach). The prostate gland is around the size of a walnut. Prostate milking leads to awesome orgasms sometime touching the penis is not even required in order to cum. You can get both vibrating and non-vibrating prostate toys.
Vibrating Prostate Toys are great as they do all the work for you once they are inserted in your ass. Just lie on your back or your side and finger your butthole with 1 or 2 lubed-up fingers to get your bottom nice, relaxed and loose. Once you feel that your butthole is a little looser and chilled out, slowly insert the sex toy with the prostate-massaging part bending toward your stomach. Once it is hitting the spot, you will know! When the toy is fully inserted, we would suggest relaxing for a few minutes and accepting the toy into your body before using the vibrations. When you are ready to start to play turn on the vibration and find one that feels right for you.
Non-vibrating Prostate Massagers as the name states do not vibrate, but surely a sex toy is better if it vibrates? Well, not necessarily. Some prostate massagers are better when they don't vibrate at all; these types are more designed to make orgasms while jacking amazing. Basically, you warm up your anus by fingering yourself with 1 or 2 lubed-up fingers until your ass is relaxed and loosened. Then, you insert the massager with the tip pointing toward your stomach when it's inside you. Now you need to learn how to use your sphincter and pelvic floor muscles to move the massager around on your P-spot. You will feel it!
While jacking off or edging use your sphincter muscles to clench your butthole around the base of the Prostate Massager. By playing around with relaxation techniques and these muscles, you can have some truly otherworldly orgasms.
How to Use a Cock Ring
Cock rings are favoured by men with erectile dysfunction or people with penises who just want to get as hard as possible and stay hard for as long as possible! Most Cock Rings look like simple rubber bands, but they are designed to limit blood flow to the penis when erect. The idea is that you get an erection, put on a cock ring, and then trap the blood flow in the cock. Who doesn’t want a rock-hard boner?
Most of these sex toys should be put on when you have already got an erection - you place the ring around the base of the shaft of your penis. Some double Cock Rings may also be designed to go around the balls too, or perhaps have a second ring designed to go around the balls separately. Do not wear a cock ring for more than 30 minutes. You can also get couples cock rings designed to be used with a partner. These are usually vibrating Cock Rings that stimulate the clitoris of a partner as you're having penetrative sex. Every time you thrust into them, they receive pleasure from your penis and clitoral pleasure from the vibrations of the Cock Ring. Good stuff.
How to Use Anal Beads
Everyone has a bum, so anal beads are a universal toy for sex that everyone can enjoy. Great to use solo or with a partner, these Anal Beads are designed to make your orgasms more intense when you're climaxing. The idea is that you pull the beads out slowly as you're nearing orgasm - the orgasmic sensations will suddenly be more intense.
First, you should consider douching your ass, especially if your beads are quite long. We have a great anal douching guide if you feel the need to clean your bottom beforehand. Once that's done, lube up 1 or 2 of your fingers and slowly insert them into your ass, getting used to the sensations and allowing the anus to relax. The anus is not as ready for sex as a vagina, so take your time.
Once you're relaxed, lube up the beads and slowly insert them, one by one. Only insert as many as you feel comfortable with - there's no need to insert them all. Once the Anal Beads are inside you, you probably won't feel them much unless they're very large. Whether you are using them solo or with a partner, you need to remember to slowly pull them out as you are nearing climax. This will make your orgasm feel more intense, whatever anatomy you have.
Hopefully you have learned a thing or two about using sex toys and having sex with toys too. Whether you are using a sex toy solo or with a partner, just remember to stay safe, follow the instructions, and have fun!
Rabbit vibes to butt plugs, there's more than one way to spice up your sex life using sex toys!
Get in the mood and brows our amazing range of Audit Toys Online.