So what is male chastity and what is the attraction of it?
Historically the concept of chastity was aimed towards women and chastity has its roots in ensuring the virtue of women. Male device chastity is a modern concept that is fast growing in popularity and it is becoming one of our best selling male sex toys.
Firstly, it's used as a method of power exchange and control
The chastity device acts to remove the obsession over the penis and provide control over any pleasure received. The BDSM world has embraced male chastity as a direct method of power play. Intimate relationships are then enhanced when the manhood of one party is taken away, and the focus is on the pleasure of the other. There is, of course, the added sexual pleasure associated with the release of control to someone else. Male chastity is also a means to enhance sexual drive and the cage is now a constant reminder for desire. In fact, the frustration of feeling the penis struggle within the cage and the intensity of this denial can create an experience that becomes almost addictive over time.
Main feature of male chastity is the actual focus on the locked penis
The penis becomes the centre piece rather than something to be covered and forgotten, it is there but just out of reach. With men the main focus of sex is usually the stimulation of the penis and ultimately to ejaculate. In this respect, the manhood is now locked away and removed, so the individual can explore sexuality in other ways. For some, the release is achieved through anal or prostate stimulation.
Is male chastity safe, should there be anything to worry about?
The main way in which the chastity devices can propose health issues is via the spread of infection due to poor hygiene, chafing and incorrect sizing. As long as you're attentive to the state of your body, you can easily avoid any potential issues. Do you plan to wear it long term? What types of sports do you enjoy? Do you travel frequently? These questions will help you choose the best male chastity device or cock cage. Once you have the right device, keeping it clean is the most important task you must adhere to on a regular basis with no exceptions.
Curious about chastity, try this to see if you may be into it
Find yourself a clean sock or an empty toilet roll and some sports tape. Keep in mind that the toilet roll will provide more restriction than a sock. Cover your cock with the sock or secure the toilet roll to your lower abdomen using the sports tape. If in the rare occasion it doesn't fit, you can always cut it and use more sports tape to create a slightly larger device. With good quality sports tape, you can safely wear this combination for an entire day, hey maybe even two days. While this is a poor substitute for the real thing, this exercise will allow you to familiarize yourself with the restriction of external objects over your manhood.
Many devices may come with a locking mechanism or have a space in which you can place an additional lock. A quick word of warning here, we would highly suggest that you use a disposable plastic lock or a simple cable tie. If you don't have access to numerous spare keys, losing your key can provide stress you simply don't need in your life. Do your research, try it out and if you find that it's not for you, well at least you gave it a go. No matter what your interests are, keep it consensual, keep it fun and most importantly keep it safe!