4 tips to help you decide which dildo is best for you
I am sure you have noticed when you are shopping for dildos there is an overwhelming amount of choices you have got. Choosing the best dildo for you is not always easy. Here are some of the choices you have, textured or smooth, realistic or not, flesh tones or bright and varied colours. Once you have decided on this then you have decide if you are going to get a curved dildo or the straight one? And how do you know which is best?
There is no easy answer to this question, just like the penis there is no single dildo that is perfect for everyone. The best way to find the right one for you is to think about what you want to feel and experience when you play with it. When you’re choosing between the curvy dildo or the straight one, here are some tips to help you decide and find the one that will get you off and make you feel amazing.
1. What do you want to do with the dildo?
You might be saying duh! The goal of using any sex toy is supposed to be pleasure, but apart from that think of what you want from the experience. Are you straight or gay, do you simply want vaginal or anal penetration? Are you trying to train your body to adjust to taking bigger sizes? All of these things need to be considered when you are choosing any sex toy, not just a dildo. If you are going for an orgasm during penetration, go for a curved dildo. For exploring anal sex, pegging or different sizes and girths, a straight dildo may be a better option.
2. What spot do you want to hit?
Every sex toy is designed to stimulate some area of your body, which can be both internally or externally. Since we’re talking about dildos, we’ll focus mainly on your internal spots. Curved dildos, whether curved in the middle or at the tip, are better for hitting the g-spot or prostate during penetration. You’ll want to be careful not to get anything too big or penetration might be painful. For people who get off on this kind of stimulation, the right dildo can make all the difference, during masturbation or partnered sex. Some dildos have realistic balls which add to external stimulation. If you don’t care about hitting a particular spot, go for any style that appeals to you. i.e. which style visually turns you on the most and makes you horny — curved or straight. But if you want to avoid stimulating your g-spot or p-spot (prostate), stick with a straighter dildo.
3. Are you looking for new sensations?
Sometimes you want something that is tried and trusted, and sometimes you want to feel something completely new. If the majority of your experience with penetration is a specific type of dildo or penises of a similar shape, you might want to try a curved dildo. But if you know what you like, and you want to stick with it, there’s nothing wrong with going with what you know.
4. What turns you on?
Straight vs curved dildo, there is no right or wrong answer. Ultimately, it’s about what appeals to you. If you are debating getting a bright pink curved dildo, just get it. When you can’t stop thinking about a thick, long realistic dong, then you should try next. Start your own dildo collection now. When it comes to dildos there is no right or wrong so have fun and with some experimentation find the dildo you enjoy most. Pick your next dildo based on your mood, and your sexual preferences, or because it looks hot. We just want you to have the kind of sexual pleasure you want more of, whether that’s a straight dildo or a curved one.